I am well used to dreading the mail coming, due to the HMRC issues but that all stopped a while ago. But today, the mail delivery brought something took me a level of rage rarely encountered.
As I have mentioned, my ex is constantly pressuring me for money she is NOT entitled to. It is non stop, and being how manipulative she is, I wondered what her next move would be. She said before, how she cannot afford a solicitor so we should do mediation. Should we???? says who?? I have repeatedly called her bluff by asking her to get her solicitor to contact mine so we can proceed. But what did I get today?
AN APPOINTMENT WITH MEDIATION SERVICES….utterly livid. The letter states I have been referred to them and that I now have an appointment in May pre-booked and to bring my ID and bank statements. WHAT…hell no.
Firstly, it is a waste of time. It is money for nothing, a good £350 worth of nothing. She is playing a game here, she will not pay for a solicitor but will do this, well I can tell you something I am not going to be attending. There is no legal obligation to go, what a cheeky cow she is. Booking me in for that, who the hell does she think she is?
Do you know what, I have so much evidence to use including last week when I found out (completely by chance) she has a sly saving account with £4000 in it. 4 grand, yet she pleads poverty…unreal.
I don’t normally rant but seriously now, enough is enough. She took everything from me, she left me to deal with the children and their emotions, a load of bills and mutual debt, and carried on with a new relationship. They live together, she works for him, he bought her a sports car and personal license plate, he gives her money, what am I paying for here? I pay every single thing for the children, gladly I will say, so why pay more?
Honestly, I am not going to lie to you all, I absolutely positively hate her. I hate with her such passion I cannot believe we were ever a couple. She is a greedy, lying, sneaky, manipulative vile creature and anyone who says Karma will step in, let’s see it.
I have been through hell to get myself back on a level, financially and emotionally, and still she won’t leave me alone.
I am so glad I have a punch bag, I have just utterly battered it.